by Cristina Nehring (November 2023)
The Three Ages of Woman (detail), Gustav Klimt, 1905
In Praise of Disability
–
Je t’aime, maman,
Says my lovely girl
As she sticks her head
Into my mezzanine bed.
–
Go back and sleep,
Say I,
She wonders why;
It’s 4 in the morning already
–
An hour
At which she starts to flower
She begins to sing
Her false notes ring
–
Around the room
As silent as a tomb
Only moments ago.
What a show
–
She stages
This handicapped child
How wild she is,
How full of vigor.
–
Go figure.
Children with Down Syndrome
Are supposed to be tame
And easily tired;
–
Whoever conspired
To give them this reputation?
I wonder
As I blunder
–
Barefoot around our Parisian flat
In search of something to make her fat
At age fifteen
She’s lean as a foal.
–
That’s not really the goal
To flourish she should have
Something to nourish
Her growing forms.
–
Who came up with the norms
For adolescents like her?
Her energy and love
Seem to come from above
–
No fatigue and no frailty
Disturb her deep gaiety
There’s no child in the world
I’d rather see
Than my Eurydice—
Even at 4 am.
Ode to an Extra Chromosome
My child she cannot read,
My girl she cannot write,
My babe she barely speaks,
But what a blur of bliss!
What a cacophony of kisses,
What an opera of affection.
She is the sunshine
Missing from Paris
She is the whirlwind waning worldwide.
She is her mother’s impertinent ecstacy.
Betrayed by her papa
She is courted
By comely young men;
The femme fatale of her school,
Attentive to all,
Indebted to none.
Together
We make a perfect pair
Of girlfriends. Sitting
Round a café table
We feed each other
Avocadoes and olives
And scatter the scruples
Of intellectuals adjacent.
Eurydice, my love, my
Light, forge on, fight on, flash on
Until the dying of the day.
Table of Contents
Cristina Nehring published The Child Who Never Spoke: 23 1/2 Lessons in Fragility on October 24, 2023. She is also the author of A Vindication of Love which made the front page of the New York Times Book Review as well as of two books in French. She writes for the Atlantic, Harper’s, the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal. She lives in Paris with her daughter.
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2 Responses
Lovely, Cristina. I’m so glad you survived your ailing spleen. Euydice and life, gifts!
Thank you so much, David! I’m touched by your words.
Warmly,
Cristina